I have always prided myself in being a just and equal person. I never judged anybody by their looks, social status or profession. I treat everyone generally equally.
I have even made friends with the household help. I have always believed that if you are a good employer then you're employee will also be good and loyal to you. But now, these beliefs I held on to dearly are beginning to crumble.
I have learned that well, yes you can be friends with the help but you can't be all too close because they tend to abuse your friendship and well, it's frustrating to try to ask them to do stuff and they think they can easily say no, just because you are close....
have you experienced this kind of stuff with your household help?
I have even made friends with the household help. I have always believed that if you are a good employer then you're employee will also be good and loyal to you. But now, these beliefs I held on to dearly are beginning to crumble.
I have learned that well, yes you can be friends with the help but you can't be all too close because they tend to abuse your friendship and well, it's frustrating to try to ask them to do stuff and they think they can easily say no, just because you are close....
have you experienced this kind of stuff with your household help?
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