Thoughts In Solitude

I'd like to point out that f orgiveness is a tough battle. It's easy to say "forgive, not for anybody else, but for yourself so you may find peace" and let your anger, pain, hurt and even suffering go. But truth of the matter, because we have been hurt, it's difficult to just forgive, even though it may be for our own healing sometimes. its not that easy to just forgive, especially if the other party is not even sorry for the wrong done... What I suggest is to allow your anger, for the situation, even for the person. Allow it, don't suppress it. No, I don't mean go and have a shouting or even a physical match with the other person. But allow yourself to feel the anger, the betrayal, let it simmer even, until the flames of your emotion slow down and eventually the embers will cool off and wither When your anger has died down, as it eventually will, work on your peace. Learn to let go of the anger, the pain and all the hurt that the situation or the person c...